Lili Weckler

I specialize in working with couples and 2+ partnerships, in which one or more of the partners identifies as queer, trans, bi, and/or pansexual. I support the members of these partnerships in building fulfillment and security in their relationships, while also enjoying full expression of their identities. I help each person regulate and understand their own system, in order to have more freedom in the ways they show up with each other. I also work with queer and poly identified individuals who want to develop pride, comfort and agency, and work on their relationships to themselves and others.

I work relationally, creatively and somatically, using tools from Somatic Experiencing and Internal Family Systems Therapy. Our work together will offer tools to help you regulate your nervous system by tuning into your sensations. You will learn ways to support conflicting parts of yourself from a grounded place, so they can work together fluidly.

Working collaboratively with my clients, I provide highly attuned, queer, trans, poly, health at any size, neurodivergent, BIPOC-affirming therapeutic space. I believe a strong relationship between therapist and client is essential to growth and healing. I will work to meet you, and respond directly to your desires for your therapeutic experience.

I see clients over telehealth in CA, with opportunities to meet in person in the Bay Area several times a year. In WA, I can offer telehealth or Eco Therapy in Seward Park in Seattle. Home visits are also available in certain situations, when appropriate or necessary for treatment.