Tammy Nelson PhD

I am the author of The New Monogamy, as well as five other books on sex and relationships, including Getting the Sex You want, When You’re the One Who Cheats and the soon to be released Open Monogamy.

My private practice with relationships of all types is currently on Zoom, and I do Intensives at my office in Los Angeles, CA or Fairfield, CT.

I take all appointments by email at the email address listed above.

I don’t take insurance but can provide an invoice for direct reimbursement. I also have a sliding scale for those who cannot afford my full fee.

I treat relationship issues including sexual desire issues, sexual dysfunction, monogamy agreements, negotiation, infidelity, and betrayal. I help with communication around decisions to open, modify or close poly relationships and can work with a variety of groups in a shared therapeutic relationship.

I have over 30 years of experience in the field. Until Covid I traveled around the world speaking on this topic and training other therapists. Now that training continues online. I am committed to helping foster sustainable flexible and fluid relationships that work.