Jessica Fern Cooley

I work with people who are looking to feel connected to themselves and others, no longer limited by the patterning, conditioning, stories, triggers, attachment styles and past pains that have been interfering with who and how you want to be. The foundation of my therapy and coaching is to create a safe, non-judgmental space for you to explore, heal and grow so that you can live your preferred expressions of self.

I specialize in Somatic Narrative Therapy, Emotional Trigger Work, Conflict Resolution, Non-Violent Communication, Attachment Work, Embodying Your New Story and Revising Your Painful Past.

Whether you are looking for support in being Poly, going Open, redefining gender roles, challenge traditional definitions of relationship, or pioneering alternative expressions of intimacy, I am here to assist you on your relational journey. When you walk into my office, you can rest assured that you will be met with acceptance and compassion.

Together we can:

• Get clear about whether being poly or opening up your relationship is right for you and your partner(s)
• Create your relationship(s) based on what you are consciously choosing instead of what society dictates
• Develop relationship guidelines, agreements and/or 'rules' of engagement
• Work through triggers, jealousy, insecure attachment styles, and patterns of reactivity
• Facilitate and mediate conversations with multiple partners and/or family members
• Create a plan for coming out to your friends, children, family of origin, work, and different communities
• Explore gender, sexuality and intimacy