Psychotherapists - Licensed or Registered

I am a genderqueer marriage and family therapist who offers poly-friendly and poly-informed counseling across all genders, races, and orientations. I am LGBTQ and kink positive.

My counseling focuses on empowered communication, secure attachment, and resilience. I help clients face challenges around jealousy, and develop compersion and metamour relationships. I work with primary couples in developing secure attachment so that they can open up their relationship in a healthy and supportive manner. I have trained deeply in Nonviolent Communication and help clients to communicate more effectively and efficiently, mediate conflicts, and heal wounding in relationships that need repair. I assist people in finding resources such as poly-affirming literature to empower their journey.

I am also trained in EMDR and work to relieve symptoms of anxiety and depression caused by trauma and historical trauma including breakups/transitions, issues around family of origin, and cultural oppression. I have worked at Crisis Support Services of Oakland and trained in trauma therapy at Native American Health Center. I have a Bachelor of Science in Nursing, and from this medical background work holistically with clients, looking at physical health along with emotional and relational health. I enjoy incorporating spirituality into sessions, including non-ordinary states of consciousness, meditation, and earth-based spirituality.

I see adults of all ages. Call me at 503-567-9842 or email me at [email protected] for a free 15-minute phone consultation.

“No doubt some life shift has prompted you to consider looking for a therapist. Wondering if you really want to risk opening up your life details to a stranger? It is extremely difficult to find someone who is not viewing your life through the lens of their personal values. Obviously you need someone you feel comfortable with. Someone that will not judge you or deem you pathologically in need of "healing." When you are in the center of emotions that accompany your circumstances it can be be difficult to sort out how you want to focus your life energy. I will assist you as we examine your life choices in my beautiful, relaxing, non-judgmental environment. Our goal is you and what will best meet your needs." - Does online consultation - Does phone consultation

I specialize in sex therapy and consensual non-monogamy. I am actively part of the LGBTQ+ and polyam communities myself. I am months away from becoming a Certified Sex Therapist. I treat individuals as well as couples/relationships. I speak English. I serve adults 18+. I mostly work with LGBTQ+ and BIPOC communities.

I have interned for the STEP Program with Juvenile Probation, The Rape Crisis Center, Community Counseling Service, and Driggers Elementary Counseling. My working experiences have offered me a wide range of opportunities to counsel couples, families, children, adolescents, and adults. I have knowledge in many areas including trauma, PTSD, depression, bipolar, schizophrenia, anxiety, self-esteem, multigenerational challenges, sexual assault, human trafficking, life transitions, and grief. I have experience working with members of the queer identity through all stages of their identity exploration and acceptance. I am also informed in various relationship practices including monogamous and alternative styles such as polyamory, kink, long-distance, and open relationships. I’m an eclectic therapist utilizing techniques from evidence-based theories such as Collaborative Therapy, Solution Focused Therapy (SFT), Narrative Therapy, and Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT). I’m also certified in Cognitive Processing Therapy (CPT) specializing in the treatment of PTSD. I speak both English and Spanish and begin working with those at age 9 and up.

Whether you are navigating your sexual orientation, relationship dynamics, or personal fetish, I am here for it. I have particular skill and knowledge in normalizing and supporting your exploration of non-monogamy, alternative relationships, queer identities, and BDSM/Kink interests. I have expertise in and experience with:

• Somatic therapy
• Sex and sexuality
• Ethically non-monogamous/ polyamorous/ alternative relationships
• Kink, BDSM, and SW communities and relationships
• Formerly incarcerated individuals
• Interpersonal and developmental trauma recovery
• Identity definition and affirmation
• Anxiety reduction
• Emotional awareness
• LGBTQIA+ community
• Couples
• Parenting and co-parenting

Identifying as an active member of the Queer, Kink/BDSM, and ethically non-monogamous communities, I am proud to serve folx identifying with diverse sexual and gender identities. I pride myself on holding a safe space for LGBTQIA+ and all people to explore and better understand themselves as sexual human beings.

My practice is founded in the body. I graduated from California Institute of Integral Studies in 2021 with a Masters in Counseling Psychology, with a focus in Somatic Psychotherapy. Somatics functions on the premise that our mind and body are intrinsically linked and the body can be an incredible resource to our mental health. My approach incorporates neuroscience, body-psychotherapy techniques, and mindfulness.

I specialize in alternative lifestyles. I work with adults and families of any age, sexuality for seniors, EMDR, cognitive restructuring, hypnosis, career and life coaching. Many of my clients are in the performing arts. I am a spiritual person, very effective, very positive and good at helping people develop resources.

Like it or not, we all spend most of our time in relation to others. Whether with coworkers, friends, family, or even roommates, we have lots of different relationships. Often, these relationships can also be the source of many of our stressors. While these relationships absolutely affect us, they do not have to define us.

I integrate various models and theories including aspects of Bowenian, Cognitive-Behavioral Therapy (CBT), and Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) to assist clients in identifying and changing the negative beliefs and cycles which keep them trapped. I help clients find new ways of relating in order to both be authentically true to themselves while also connecting with others in their lives.

I seek to create a compassionate environment that encourages a safe space for the exploration of relational patterns and a deeper understanding of oneself and others. My clinical areas of specialty include anxiety, communication, relationships, sex, and sexuality.

My training focuses on issues regarding relationships, communication, attachment, and sex therapy. My goal is to provide a space where clients can feel supported to explore their emotions, values, and beliefs as well as learn to identify and express needs and desires.

I am knowledgeable and affirming of diverse and alternative genders, sexualities, and relationship styles. I specialize in providing counseling for individuals, couples, and pods who are polyamorous, LGBTQIA+, and/or kinky.

Like it or not, we all spend most of our time in relation to others. Whether with coworkers, friends, family, or even roommates, we have lots of different relationships. Often, these relationships can also be the source of many of our stressors. While these relationships absolutely affect us, they do not have to define us.

I integrate various models and theories including aspects of Bowenian, Cognitive-Behavioral Therapy (CBT), and Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) to assist clients in identifying and changing the negative beliefs and cycles which keep them trapped. I help clients find new ways of relating in order to both be authentically true to themselves while also connecting with others in their lives.

I seek to create a compassionate environment that encourages a safe space for the exploration of relational patterns and a deeper understanding of oneself and others. My clinical areas of specialty include anxiety, communication, relationships, sex, and sexuality.

My training focuses on issues regarding relationships, communication, attachment, and sex therapy. My goal is to provide a space where clients can feel supported to explore their emotions, values, and beliefs as well as learn to identify and express needs and desires.

I am knowledgeable and affirming of diverse and alternative genders, sexualities, and relationship styles. I specialize in providing counseling for individuals, couples, and pods who are polyamorous, LGBTQIA+, and/or kinky.

I provide individual therapy to individuals 14 and up. I am in network with most insurance companies. I also work with families who are poly.

I specialize in sex and relationships, specifically working with all types of sexual minorities, including poly, non-mono, kink, gay, lesbian, bi-sexual, trans etc. I am also informed about allyship and recognize the impact that race has on these issues. I am a trauma therapist, meditation teacher, and Tantra educator. I work with adults 18+ including 65+. I offer individual and couples work. I also have an ongoing therapy group for Poly/Non-Mono/Kinky folk. I do not take insurance; however, if you have an out of network benefit with your insurance, I can give you the info. you need to submit for reimbursement after self pay. I offer a free 60 minute consultation for those who’d like more info. and to see if we’re a good fit. www.calendly.com/mariamerloni

I am an Integrative psychotherapist, which means that I combine several approaches depending on a client, their needs and goals. My main modalities include CBT, ACT, CFT, IFS, narrative therapy and DBT skills training with an emphasis on trauma-informed care.

I’m also a clinical psychologist, sex therapist and addictions specialist.

My main specialities include: feeding and eating disorders, ADHD and ASD in adults, DBT skills training for ADHD and ASD, impulse control disorders and trauma-informed care.

My interests in sex and relationship therapy include kink-affirming practice, gender identity and sexuality questioning, trauma-informed care, sexuality, intimacy and relationships in neurodivergent individuals.

As an LGBTQIA+ and Neurodivergence-informed psychotherapist, I provide a safe and inclusive space for individuals, couples and bubbles from diverse backgrounds to explore and work through a range of challenges. Most of my clients are either neurodivergent and/or identify themselves as LGBTQIA+ individuals, so it is crucial for me to take into account their unique stories and life context, and offer a trans diagnostic approach while trying to find together their strengths and balance limitations.

Languages of therapy: English, French, Russian

Here is a non-exhaustive list of areas I cover:

anxiety, depression, narcissistic trauma, CPTSD, PTSD, panic attack, insomnia, procrastination, rejection sensitivity dysphoria, eating disorders, stress, addictions, impulse control disorders, meltdowns, relationship breakdowns and conflicts, anger management, sexuality and gender-related questions, lack of desire, difficulty having an orgasm. pain during sex or inability to have penetrative sex, difficulty getting or keeping an erection (erectile dysfunction), premature ejaculation or other ejaculation-related issues, non-monogamy/polyamory, issues with family of origin, work/career-related problems, time-management.

Please, feel free to enquire about your personal questions if you don’t find yourself in the above description or if you have any additional questions.

I have advanced training in Somatic Experiencing® and Emotionally Focused Therapy, which is an evidence based therapy I use in relationship work. I am sex positive and strive to create a non-judgmental environment for clients of all orientations and lifestyles. LGBTQ+ and clients practicing ethical nonmonagamy are welcome! I also specialize in helping people heal from sexual trauma.

I specialize in relationship counseling, as well as transgender issues. I also am qualified to deal with depression, anxiety, bipolar, OCD, etc. I work with adults, teens, and children 5 years old and up.

Services: I provide virtual therapy to adults and older teens in the state of Wisconsin. My practice is centered around providing services to LGBTQ individuals and I have extensive experience working with trans/gender diverse folks to explore gender, alleviate dysphoria, and work through family issues. In addition to identity exploration, my clinical expertise includes working with anxiety, depression, bereavement, relationship issues, interpersonal difficulties, first episode psychosis, and emotional dysregulation. I have experience providing sensitive and affirming psychotherapy to folks of varying sexual identities and relational orientations including kink, BDSM, and non-monogamy. I am sex-positive and support sex workers.

Professional specialties and skills: I have over 10 years experience working with clients and couples that identify as Polyamorous. I personally am part of the Polyamorous Community and have a passion for helping us have a voice! I also have extensive experience working with the LGBTQA community and also have experience with the kink/BDSM community and create an environment where one feels comfortable and not shamed, which sadly is common, even with therapists. I also have experience working with Addiction and codependency.

Language spoken: English

Populations served: Age 12-99. I work with Individuals and Couples. My specialties include: Anxiety, LGBTQA (youth too!), Mindfulness, Nervous System Regulation, Addiction, Issues related to Adoption and many more!

I'm experienced in working with poly individuals and relationships, as well as working with BDSM community. I will work with you to explore your experience of being in the world and help you to gain insight into the meaning in your life. Together we will bring some of those unconscious processes ("I'm in this place again!") into awareness and create a vision for change. We will examine how certain patterns or behaviors came into existence within you, and you will consider whether you'd like to keep them around in the present or if you'd like to design a new model. I utilize art therapy and dream work in addition to talk therapy. I specialize in working with people who may be experiencing: -depression and/or mood disorder -anxiety (including social anxiety) -aftermath from recent or past trauma including sexual abuse -feeling stuck in patterns, in your career, relationships, or creatively -unresolved family issues -struggles in relationships -grief and loss -repetition of unhealthy or destructive patterns or behaviors -confusion or struggles pertaining to gender or sexual identity -substance abuse -a sense that you give too much to others and not enough to yourself

Queer, Bi+, Poly, Disabled

Learn and understand your desires so that you can stay confident in your identity and deepen connections with friends, lovers and community. Clarify needs, desires, agreements, process jealousy, establish healthy boundaries & create the authentic relationships you crave.

Approach: Coaching using Motivational Interviewing, Solution Focused and Non-Violent Communication

Offering services to individuals who are:

• Bisexual, Pansexual, Queer, LGBTQIA

• Consensual Non-Monogamy (CNM) Polyamory

• Deaf & Hard of Hearing

• In Transitions

Specializations:

• Gender expansive language

• LGBTQIA

• Coming Out

• Kink-positive

• Disability

• Deaf Culture

• Parenting

Marisa is a marriage and family therapist and educational psychologist. She is a certified Prepare/Enrich facilitator, has completed Level 1 and 2 Training in the Gottman Method, and wrote a book on the science of relationships. She has worked extensively with the poly community.

Her clinical work focuses on, but is not limited to, relationships, anxiety, stress, boundary setting, work/life balance, and adjusting to life transitions. She takes a collaborative, solution-focused approach to create a warm and open atmosphere, where clients feel comfortable sharing their stories and lived experiences. She also use psychoeducation and various evidence-based interventions to help her clients reach their full potential. She will work with her clients at a pace that feels comfortable to embark on a journey of self-discovery, healing, and growth.

I provide psychotherapy in English to clients (13+) seeking mental health services for relationship issues, trauma, anxiety, depression, substance use, identity discovery, and life transitions. I am a queer non-binary therapist who is poly-, kink-, sex-, and LGBTQIA+-positive and friendly.

Greetings, I am Dr. Westberg, a sex therapist based in New York City. My qualifications include being a board-certified sexologist (ACS), certified sex educator (ASSECT), and a licensed couples counselor (LMFT).

My practice caters to individual and couples who experience a wide range of sexual issues such as low desire, desire discrepancies, sexual trauma, infidelity, sexual exploration, performance issues, and pain during sex.

I employ an approach that is grounded in theories that challenge societal norms regarding sex and sexuality, and I possess a profound understanding of trauma. My primary objective is to help you achieve your desired outcome, while promoting healthy sexual relationships that are free from shame.

Greetings, I am Dr. Westberg, a sex therapist based in New York City. My qualifications include being a board-certified sexologist (ACS), certified sex educator (ASSECT), and a licensed couples counselor (LMFT).

My practice caters to individual and couples who experience a wide range of sexual issues such as low desire, desire discrepancies, sexual trauma, infidelity, sexual exploration, performance issues, and pain during sex.

I employ an approach that is grounded in theories that challenge societal norms regarding sex and sexuality, and I possess a profound understanding of trauma. My primary objective is to help you achieve your desired outcome, while promoting healthy sexual relationships that are free from shame.

With 8+ years of experience in a polyamorous lifestyle, I understand that finding a therapist and people to talk to who truly understand can be challenging.

I have studied with Tamera Peace Research and Education Centre in Portugal, and have a free-love approach to polyamory and ethical non-monogamy. I believe that love free from fear creates a new culture of a more peaceful world. However I know from experience that being polyamorous can bring up some of our deepest wounds and fears. I help people walk through these challenges and navigate them to bring the utmost healing for themselves and their community. As a somatic therapist I work with the body and nervous system to support you to feel calmer and more grounded and to help you feel safer and more free in your body and mind.

Please feel free to reach out with any questions. I offer an initial free 15 minute consultation where we can feel out if we are a good fit to work together.

I work with adults 18+

English Only

Online sessions available

Services: I work from a feminist lens and have been trained in Ketamine assisted psychotherapy for individuals and couples, Brainspotting, IFS, ACT, and also utilize somatic and mindfulness based practices.

Language spoken: English

Populations served: I work primarily with communities in the margins, queer/trans, neurodivergent, kinky, polyam folx. I see individuals, couples, polycules, families, and youth 12 or older. I specialize in gender exploration, chronic illness/pain support (indiv & group), relationship/sex therapy, & women’s issues (including SA, IPV, and DV).

I’m an AASECT Certified Sex Therapist and Certified Imago Relationship Therapist working with couples and individuals to:

Increase their enjoyment, effectiveness, and emotional and sexual connection. Explore and apply sex positive, sexual health principles that align with their values.

Shepherd through negotiation of agreements, and emotional triggers in monogamous and nonmonogamous relationships

Individual, couples and family therapy for adjustment problems and psychiatric disorders.

Making the decision to see a therapist is not an easy one, and it often takes a fair amount of courage to do so. For those who decide that therapy is appropriate, the outcome can be positive, bringing them more intimacy and fulfillment. Therapy provides the opportunity to improve communication, reduce stress, anxiety and anger, and improve the most important relationship we have….the one we have with ourselves.

I am a licensed therapist who has worked on the Peninsula for over 21 years. Issues I address include relationship struggles (both traditional and non-traditional), problems associated anxiety, depression and parenting. I also work with issues related to physical and sexual abuse.

I focus on creating a safe, supportive and non-judgmental therapeutic experience. It is important to find the right therapist for you. Feel free to contact me if you have any questions about my work and to “interview me.

My passion is supporting others in their personal transformation and evolution to become their greatest idea of themselves in their life and relationships. I enjoy supporting couples in exploring the strengths and challenges in their unique relationship journey and to support difficult, exciting and sexy conversations to help them evolve into greater trust, safety & pleasure together. Clients who have worked with me have appreciated that I am unique as a therapist due to my balance of being compassionate and direct, curious and real, analytical and playful. I fully support CNM, Kink, and LGBTQIA+ people and I would be honored to meet with you to see if we will work well together. I also look forward to using my training in MDMA therapy and other psychedelics to support couples therapy once legally allowed. As a combat veteran, I understand the impacts of trauma and war on the psyche, soul and relationships. Additionally, I strive to read and seek diverse training in collective trauma and the impacts of systems of white-body supremacy so that I can better serve BIPOC and minority communities in our work in sex & relationship therapy. Thank you for your interest and please reach out for a free consultation to explore how you can experience more authenticity in yourself and your relationships to bring about the change you seek.

Mark offers an affirming practice where GLBTQ and heterosexual clients can explore issues of self esteem, authenticity and communication. He works with people seeking to enhance their relationships however they define them: open, monogamous, poly and/or kinky. He welcomes open-minded clients with alternative spiritual beliefs and practices. Many insurance plans accepted.

See my website for details. I am semi-retired after 37 years on the staff of Mayo Clinic in Rochester, MN from 1967 to 1988, and in Jacksonville, FL from 1988 through 2004. The services I provide include consultations and evaluations, and various types of therapy. The types of therapy include all forms of stress management, applied psychophysiology, behavioral/learning therapies including cognitive behavior therapies, many types of relaxation procedures, and sometimes integrated sociocultural,psychodynamic, and existential approaches.

My education, training, and experience have encompassed a very broad array of symptoms and disorders, and patients of nearly all ages although primarily adults.

Your professional specialties and skills (from my website): The types of problems for which I specialize include: anxiety disorders, depression disorders, adjustment disorders, insomnia, acute and chronic stress, life and work stress management, PTSD, anger management, tension and migraine headaches, psycholoical factors/stress factors affecting medical conditions, selected sexual disorders, selected relationship disorders, psychophysiological conditions, nocturnal enuresis, and bereavement.

Fees:

Evaluations: $400 to $800


Therapy sessions based on $180./hour


Psychological Testing: $200. to $800. (2 to 8 hours)


Phone-based therapy: $100 to $200. depending on time


Special letters: $200. to $800. depending on complexity


No sliding scale but extra time typical without extra charges and 20% discounts available in special circumstances